Puppy ears forever
Several people wrote me and asked how in the world I could stay on the phone for 9 hours, as I mentioned in yesterday's post.
Actually it's easy--at least for me. I've always liked to talk and phones add in the safety that no matter what I say I can't get hit for it. At least not immediately and I'm not one to worry about what'll happen the next day or weekend. Hell, Chris and I commonly had 4 hour phone conversations and according to her, she didn't like to talk on the phone. Same with me and Renee--3 hours, 4 hours, even longer at times.
However these past few days I've been talking with an old friend who --due to a disagreement way back before I moved to NC-- I'd not talked to in nearly a decade. So we had a lot of catching up to do. Something like 24 hours on the phone in one week of catching up. Not much chance of anything romantic here--she's in a "domestic partnership"--but I didn't realize just how much I'd missed talking to her until I heard her voice last Thursday. For the first time in 10 years. Wow.
She's added to the cat collection but it's only up to 4--and yes, that does seem to buy into the stereotype--but despite that regrettable foible she's pretty much the same now as she was then. Isn't it comforting to know that some things--and feelings--never change?
Actually it's easy--at least for me. I've always liked to talk and phones add in the safety that no matter what I say I can't get hit for it. At least not immediately and I'm not one to worry about what'll happen the next day or weekend. Hell, Chris and I commonly had 4 hour phone conversations and according to her, she didn't like to talk on the phone. Same with me and Renee--3 hours, 4 hours, even longer at times.
However these past few days I've been talking with an old friend who --due to a disagreement way back before I moved to NC-- I'd not talked to in nearly a decade. So we had a lot of catching up to do. Something like 24 hours on the phone in one week of catching up. Not much chance of anything romantic here--she's in a "domestic partnership"--but I didn't realize just how much I'd missed talking to her until I heard her voice last Thursday. For the first time in 10 years. Wow.
She's added to the cat collection but it's only up to 4--and yes, that does seem to buy into the stereotype--but despite that regrettable foible she's pretty much the same now as she was then. Isn't it comforting to know that some things--and feelings--never change?
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So happy that you re-established a cherished friendship!
Sassy, it was a surprise to me that it happened but a welcome one.
An old friend is to be cherished. I'm glad you reconnected and that comforting feeling was there regardless of all that's occurred in the interim. :-)